So, I like to go and play basketball, or at least shoot hoops. But, it seems like most of the times I go, there’s a guy that assumes I’d be open to flirting with him. Because, after all, I’m a girl in a basketball court, or course I’m not here just to exercise or get better!!! (sarcasm). It’s true though, like a guy will forget his whole workout of playing sometimes, and just become my own personal ball return. Like I can see what you’re doing dude, but I have a boyfriend. Although, that is how my current boyfriend and I met each other, but that’s not the point. It just bothers me sometimes, though, because these guys get so dense. Like why are you talking to me when I’m not fully engaged in conversation with you? Can’t guys get a read on whether a girl is interested or not? Or do we just have to come out with a really narcissistic attitude and assume that you’re flirting with us by saying ” I’m sorry, but I have a boyfriend.”
I’m not complaining necessarily about the fact that these guys obviously have guts to approach girls, but it’s just kind of annoying when I want to workout. It’s hard to be serious when I feel like someone might be checking me out. Like it just makes me not want to move. Hence, it’s hard to get better as a girl in setting that are normally a guy’s turf, because guys always seem to be looking at what you’re doing, even if you may not be that attractive.