To me feelings don’t have to be where one person is the only thing you think about; but just that they are the one you think about in that way. Relationships don’t have to be hard, but that doesn’t mean they are always easy. At the end of the day, you should feel happy with who you are with. Feelings can be directed to many people, just be careful that you don’t allow anyone to abuse your affection. Don’t let someone treat you in a way that is less than you feel like you deserve. Be careful about who you choose to hate, don’t hate blindly, for you don’t know the reason they are in your life. If you can, try to not hate at all, it’s a waste of your energy to focus on the bad. Unless someone is mean to you, you shouldn’t say bad things about them. Even if someone is mean to you though, you should still aim to filter your words. Who knows, the person you’re talking about today, might end up as your friend later on. If someone is saying bad things about you behind your back, don’t turn around and say bad things in return; it will make you no better than them. Unless you know for a fact that something is true, don’t go talking about it like it is.